My

given name · Latin script

Meaning: shortened form of OFr ami 'friend'; first attested John le My 1332 SRSt

A female name· listed as female by the registers that count names by sex

(measured from records)Officially recorded in 26 countries · latest register: Census Bureau, 2020

Pronunciation:

My is a female given name written in the Latin script, with more bearers in Vietnam than in any other country, where it is the 34th most common given name.

  • VNVietnam≈1 in 270(inferred from the name graph)
  • SESweden1 in 900
  • DKDenmark1 in 5.4K

carrying the name, as counted by its national register where one exists and as Mondonomo estimates it elsewhere (marked ≈ and "est." on hover). One hue, darker where it is more common; hover a country for its figure.

Vietnam (inferred from the name graph)

≈380,000 people, est.

Record sources
204 (measured from records)

corpus datasets behind its best-documented spelling

strongest: highest-authority source

≈1 in 268 (inferred from the name graph)

Vietnam, est.

measured from records inferred from the name graph

Spellings & scripts

(measured from records)

One other spelling is counted as the same name:

Spellings marked ● are how people bearing the name write it in our records, and ○ marks a model's transliteration; click a spelling to open its page.

Meaning & origin

(measured from records)

shortened form of OFr ami 'friend'; first attested John le My 1332 SRSt

Cited for this meaning 1

  • A Dictionary of English Surnames

Attested across 28 languages in the etymology graph.

Where in the world

(measured from records)

My counted together with the spellings and other-language forms grouped with it. Where a register counted another spelling, the row names it.

Sorted by bearers: national registers' counts, and Mondonomo's estimates (≈, est.) where no register counts.

Where My is recorded, by country
CountryMost common spellingSources
VN Vietnam#34≈380,000 est.≈1 in 268listedMy204
SE Sweden—11,3311 in 90011KMy19
US United States—8,1591 in 41K6.5KMy157
IN India—≈3,500 est.≈1 in 410K—My13
GB United Kingdom—≈1,300 est.≈1 in 54K—My46
DK Denmark—1,0821 in 5.4K1.1K——
FI Finland—7371 in 7.6K1.1K—6
NO Norway—3791 in 14K912My10

Exact figures are national registers' own counts, while figures marked ≈ and est. are Mondonomo’s estimates, counted from our sources and calibrated against those registers; hover one for how far to trust it in that country. A dash means neither exists.

Registers cited: Census Bureau — First Name Frequency 2020 by sex; Skatteverket — Sök hur många som har ett visst namn (living population); DVV — Etunimitilasto (Finnish given names register); DVV — Nimipalvelu (Finnish name service, per-name lookup); Danmarks Statistik — Hvor mange hedder...? (living-population name counts); SSB PxWebApi — Persons/Last names by year (StatBank tables 10501/12891); SSB — Navnesøk (name-search service, living population). Figures without a register are Mondonomo estimates; see Methodology.

Country figures for a list of names, at full precision, are available under licence rather than by scraping this table (how that works).

Other names spelled this way

(inferred from the name graph)

My is also recorded as 9 other names, grouped separately because the records behind them do not connect to the one described above.

  • a separate given name15 spellings in the group

    Most recorded in United States, United Kingdom, Malaysia, India

    Also written Mỹ, Mÿ, Mý, M̃y, Mỳ

  • English given name29 spellings in the group

    Most recorded in United States, Australia, United Kingdom, Germany

    Languages: English, German, Dutch

    Also written Mỹ, M-Y, Mý, Mÿ, Mỳ

  • a separate name8 spellings in the group

    Also written Mý, Mỹ, Mỳ, M-Y, M'Y

  • Spanish given name30 spellings in the group

    Most recorded in United States, El Salvador, Chile, Brazil

    Languages: Spanish, Portuguese

    Also written Mý, Mỹ, M'Y, M-Y, M'Ý

  • French given name15 spellings in the group

    Most recorded in France, Belgium, United States, Canada

    Also written Mỹ, Mÿ, M'Y, M-Y, Mý

  • Swedish given name17 spellings in the group

    Most recorded in Sweden, Denmark, United States, Norway

    Languages: Swedish, Danish, Norwegian

    Also written Mỹ, Mý, Mỷ, Mÿ, Mŷ

  • Arabic given name14 spellings in the group

    Most recorded in Egypt, Morocco, United States, Algeria

    Also written Mÿ, Mý, Mŷ, Ḿy, M-Y

  • Finnish given name9 spellings in the group

    Most recorded in Sweden, Finland, United States

    Languages: Finnish, Estonian

    Also written Mý, ́my, Mỳ, Mỹ, Mÿ

  • Indonesian given name13 spellings in the group

    Most recorded in Indonesia, Malaysia, United States, India

    Languages: Indonesian, Malay

    Also written Mỹ, My', 'My, Mý, Mÿ

57 further groups record this spelling and are not listed here.

Grouping is the name graph's, not a register's: two spellings join a group when the evidence links them, so a group is a claim about the records rather than about the people.

Other recorded senses

(measured from records)

My is also recorded in 5 other lexicons, as a different name or as an ordinary word. These are senses of the spelling, not of the name above.

  • In English, First-person singular possessive determiner. See Appendix:Possessive#English.

    as a wordkaikki.org Wiktionary extract (IPA + transliterations)

  • In cdo, mean disposition, (aftecta tion). “low crude mass’—a depraved person

    as a wordDictionary of the Foochow Dialect

  • In cdo, humble surname is, (bé to find its way in as water does, to flow, to penetrate, to tinge, to soak, gradually, slowly. to advance, gradual progress. moderate liberalism, (gék-céng). to soak gradually. gradually, slowly. to grow gradually

    as a wordDictionary of the Foochow Dialect

  • In cdo, father, as used in letters the father hands it down to his parental bodies. elders, (didng-budi). appendix, does the son contribution to our ‘father and mother, (séng-ching), both parents still living. district and prefectural magis

    as a wordDictionary of the Foochow Dialect

  • In cdo, elder brother, (also for a great grandfather, very just. public affairs, main aspect of affairs, N. the high seas. one of the solar terms, january of great stature, (hdng-ma). wholly recovered, (from sickness). university, college

    as a wordDictionary of the Foochow Dialect

Ordered by how much of this spelling's record each language holds, so a sense from a language the name is barely used in sits last rather than first.

Notable people with this name

(measured from records)
1940196019802000Trương Mỹ Lan, b. 1956My Skarsgård, b. 1956Lisa Nilsson, b. 1970My Thordal, b. 1973My Bodell, b. 1973Mỹ Tâm, b. 1981Vũ Hoàng My, b. 1988Midu, b. 1989Molly Sandén, b. 1992My Larsen, b. 1999

The ten people covered by the most Wikipedia language editions — a proxy for cross-cultural notability, which favours historical and Western figures over equally prominent contemporary ones — shown by birth year. Source: Wikidata (CC0).

How to address them

(machine-generated)
FormalDear Colleague,
InformalHello,

Evidence

(measured from records)

50 registers and reference works attest this spelling, across 26 countries.

Official registers attesting My
CountryRegisterYearCountRank
US United StatesCensus Bureau — Surname Frequency 20202020399#55,517
US United StatesCensus Bureau — Surname Frequency 20102010304#65,244
US United StatesCensus Bureau — Surname Frequency 20002000267#68,782
NO NorwaySSB — Navnesøk (name-search service, living population)—12#52,803
US United Stateswru Name Dictionary — US surnames, Census 2010 subset (Khanna et al.)———

Reference works 5

  • Dictionary of American Family Names
  • The Oxford Dictionary of Family Names in Britain and Ireland
  • Wikipedia given-name tokens
  • Wikidata name items (native-script + romanized given/family names)
  • Cognomix.it (Nomix s.r.l.) — Italian surname origin dictionary

These works list the name; their figures are licensed and are not reproduced here.

Register rows as of the 2026-10-09 data build.

Frequently asked questions

In which country does My have the most bearers?
Mondonomo estimates about 377 thousand people named My in Vietnam, more than in any other country we hold, where it is most often spelled my.
What does the name My mean, and where does it come from?
shortened form of OFr ami 'friend'; first attested John le My 1332 SRSt Recorded by A Dictionary of English Surnames.
Is My a male or female name?
My is a female name. National registers that list it by sex list it as female: United States (Census Bureau, 2020), Finland (DVV), Denmark (Danmarks Statistik) and Norway (SSB), among others.
What are other forms of the name My?
In the etymology graph, Mary, Marie and Miriam are forms of the same name in other languages; it is recorded as a short form of Maria.
How common is the name My?
In Sweden, the national register counted 11,331 people named My, about 1 in 900 residents.
How common is My compared with other names?
In Vietnam, My is the 34th most common given name of 73,918 given names recorded there.

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About this data

measured from records inferred from the name graph machine-generated

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Statistics are aggregated from the Mondonomo name corpus; related names and etymology are inferred from the name graph; pronunciation and any machine-marked transliterations are model-generated. Read how the numbers are made, including their known failure modes, and where the data comes from.

Reference works we consult — surname dictionaries, official name registers, Wikidata and Wiktionary — are named directly, beside the claims they support. The per-country source counts also include datasets of person records: we publish how many there are and their authority tier, but not their names.

Cite this page Mondonomo, “My” — the 34th most common given name in Vietnam. Data snapshot 2026-10-13.

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